The True Essence of Love: Understanding Its Depth and Meaning

 

Hi, I hope you are doing well and enjoying the life. Today, I'm going to take you on a trip where you will discover the true definition of love. I'm sure it will completely change your perspective on love.  

In the 21st century, we find ourselves surrounded by modern comforts and conveniences, yet we often find ourselves preoccupied with various distractions, causing us to overlook the importance of love amidst the hustle and bustle of daily life.  

In my viewpoint, you may perceive that I am consuming your time, given the fast-paced nature of our contemporary world, where each microsecond holds significance.  

I understand, let's start this wonderful journey of love... or else you might tear my book.  

Regrettably, I neglected to introduce myself. My name is Nish, and I hail from Noida, where I was raised in a middle-class household. My father works in a private firm, while my mother manages our household. Initially, I held the belief that love entailed a purely physical attraction between individuals of opposite genders, centered on the appreciation of each other's superficial attributes. However, my perspective on love underwent a significant shift when I found myself enamored with a person who happened to reside in close proximity.  

First of all, I will share a few lovable and hateful moments of life. Then I believe I would be able to correctly define the real sense of love. Let's have a look at my life.
 

I believe it was in 2006-07 when I first met the person I love. We started off as good friends, but over time, I began to develop feelings for her. I vividly remember the moment when she kissed me on my cheeks. At that moment, I felt like I was going to lose my senses, and that's when I realized that I was in love with her. Days passed, and as we grew up, I never dared to ask her if she felt the same way. We shared beautiful moments with her every single day, but I hit a setback when my trust in her was shaken. I vividly remember the year 2015 when my friend told me that they saw her holding hands with a boy. I was furious and decided not to meet her again. However, I realized that love means trust, Upon reflection, I resolved to verify the information. However, I refrained from directly inquiring, and  consequently, I was unable to ascertain the veracity of the matter. Gradually I pardon her and let go of the incident. But it seems that fate had other plans, as I recently heard something about her again, this time from my very close one. I made a firm decision not to engage in conversation or acknowledge her. To this day, I continue to adhere to that philosophy.  

Although we're not on speaking terms, I still love her. I'm not sure if she likes me, but one thing I can say for sure is that I  never misses an opportunity to look at her. I'm not sure if it's love or anger. But my eyes always linger on her. Right now, we are working towards our future goals. I always pray for her happiness, whether she could be mine or not. Let's see what happens.  

"What changes did I feel when I was in love?"  

•        I made the decision to limit her space because I was essentially treating her like my pet.  

•        I placed my trust in others, not in my love.  

•        I experienced a period of feeling resentful towards women, during which I started to believe that all women were not being genuine.  

But when I embarked upon my college life, I met a very sensible friend named Pramit, who is the epitome of positivity. He gave me a new direction of thought and helped me break free from stereotypes. "But now I'm finding myself as a totally new person – inquisitive, a little bit confident, and enthusiastic. It's disappointing that my love is not by my side, as she has moved away from my vicinity. If she were here, I would eagerly discuss the many thoughts and questions that occupy my mind. Nevertheless, I'm certain that one day, I will have the opportunity to engage in those conversations with her.  

so i reached to the conclusion-

If you love somebody, love that person with all your heart. Appreciate the intrinsic qualities of that person because those qualities remain until the last breath. Always trust your partner, as one misconception has the potential to devastate someone's life. Respect your love and their life. It is important to be open-minded, courageous, and gutsy because these qualities contribute to becoming a confident person. Through personal experience, I have come to realize that embodying these traits is a true reflection of love in its purest form.  

I hope you get the real sense of LOVE ...  

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